How long has this been going on? My mother has tons and I mean TONS of cats, (like 50, and I am not joking either). Over the years she has had cat-situations like that, where one is timid and the other aggressive...and it usually just straightens itself out over time.

I would hate to see either one of you have to give away a pet that you love...are you absolutely sure there is no waiting it out?

(unless one is significantly bigger/meaner/more claws and teeth than the other, then maybe that's not such a great idea...)

How long has this been going on? My mother has tons and I mean TONS of cats, (like 50, and I am not joking either). Over the years she has had cat-situations like that, where one is timid and the other aggressive...and it usually just straightens itself out over time.

 

I would hate to see either one of you have to give away a pet that you love...are you absolutely sure there is no waiting it out?

(unless one is significantly bigger/meaner/more claws and teeth than the other, then maybe that's not such a great idea...)

He got here at the end of December last year. His cat just won't fight for anything. She'll fight back, but as soon as she can, she'll run and hide. So... I don't know. It seems like it's been a fair amount of time to get this straightened out.

The reason my cat is the one to go is because she's well-adjusted. His cat is temperamental. She wouldn't know how to function without him. And I just can't do that to him anyway. It just sucks.