Kit, i wasn't trying to -push- you into anything. I just recognise that you're completly stressed and stretched beyond your limit and wanted you to have some time (even if it was in the future) to relax and enjoy yourself some. I feel through on the bed, because of distance. I was trying to come up with a way to get it to you guys, i'm sorry it ended up a broken promise. I wasn't trying to rub anything in, or make anyone feel bad, i just want you and snow both to take a little time for yourselves. Running yourself into the ground like you are isn't healthy at all. ~__~ Not to mention it worries the hell out of me when i hear/see that you have breakdowns and are worried and upset all the time. I'm sorry it didn't come out that way...